Understanding the Messages From Your Higher Self

"I was drawn like a moth to a flame... ", "Something told me to walk away but I just couldn't do it... ", "I was mesmerized, I can't explain it... ", these words are rarely heard in the beginning of a story about great successes, a fulfilling relationship or joy beyond our dreams. They precede a story that graduates to "If only... "

The best thing about these kinds of stories, whether they are in our own life or those around us, is that oddly enough, the story is somehow exciting. Something grabbed our attention and riveted us to a person or situation. With the force of an unseen magnet, we become melded to pain in our lives, "Just can't escape it," we say. Worse still; we believe that to be the truth. But is it?

The higher self, super conscious mind, call it what you will; that part of us that is genuinely connected to the best that we can ever become, is the master at the helm of the command center in our lives. It is always benevolent, so how can these tragedies and disasters enter and control our lives?

We missed the signal, misunderstood the cue and disobeyed the command.

Just behind the most difficult emotional challenges in our relationships with others sits an imaginary figure with a great big hook. We call him Delusion and sometimes, Denial. His hook is powerful; its name is Emotion. They work together to derail our plans, to alter our course and detour our path in life. They have no shame.

Establishing a clear communication system with that higher part of ourselves is essential to recognizing the hook that darts out from behind and grabs us. Every bad decision is laced with emotions that are misinterpreted through self-delusion.

When we thought we were drawn to the flame, we focused on the emotions; the excitement and the attraction involved in that situation blind sighted us and we failed to see the flames as a warning. Our interest was piqued not to attract us to that person, but to warn us about the approaching flames.

That little voice that 'just told me' was your higher self; failing to heed that voice will ensure something painful for you to endure that you can easily avoid. Look closely at the things in your life that you still say were your worst decisions, the most painful choices, and hear the distant echo of that little voice warning you not to do it.

We somehow misread the signal. When Denial has entered, we recognized the signal and disregarded it because we thought we were strong enough to handle the ensuing distress.

Music has been the best path to constant communication with my higher self for me.

Yours may be something else. Identify what you will respond to and tell your higher self. Simply say, "This is the command I can understand." When a song suddenly pops into my mind I establish whether it is a signal. I ask for it to increase in volume if it is and to be silent if it is not. This has never failed me.

Different songs that suddenly spring into our minds are always about something. I identify what part of that song applies to whatever is going on and focus on that to get the message. It is usually the few lines that keep repeating in my mind. I am able to receive very clear messages by simply silently asking for the music to increase in consistency and volume if my assessment is correct and to be silent if not.

It is not necessary to speak any of this out loud; we are well into existing in quantum energy now and far more is open for us to communicate easily. Tapping into a clear communication method with the highest part of yourself is the equivalent of walking through life with an angel perched high above you to see into the distance; one whose advice is readily available and 100% benevolent.

Try it; what have you got to lose except a lot of pain and an easy escape from that emotional hook that controls our lives when we are caught unsuspectingly in the dark by those scandalous Denial and Delusion extortionists!

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